When I first realized I was heterosexual, I took a while to admit to it. I mean, what's wrong with guys? But over time I've come to be at peace with the fact that I am a man and I'm attracted to women, not men.
Oddly, there's some truth to that. I'm an unconventional person and I kinda feel like I should be gay, but I'm not. In theory I could be attracted to a man, but in practice there's no guys I feel sexually attracted to. I'm okay with it.
This reminds me of the event I put on in late 1998 at Gonzaga, called "Coming Out Heterosexual," where I gave this speech about how newly-out heteros might have trouble with their families and some of their friends for revealing their orientation, but that if their family and friends weren't supportive and accepting of it, then they're not deserving of their attentions, etc. And all of the pat phrases we hear in coming out groups got turned around...you get the idea. People there thought it was really innovative and fascinating and strangely true...that's GU for ya!
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Oddly, there's some truth to that. I'm an unconventional person and I kinda feel like I should be gay, but I'm not. In theory I could be attracted to a man, but in practice there's no guys I feel sexually attracted to. I'm okay with it.
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This reminds me of the event I put on in late 1998 at Gonzaga, called "Coming Out Heterosexual," where I gave this speech about how newly-out heteros might have trouble with their families and some of their friends for revealing their orientation, but that if their family and friends weren't supportive and accepting of it, then they're not deserving of their attentions, etc. And all of the pat phrases we hear in coming out groups got turned around...you get the idea. People there thought it was really innovative and fascinating and strangely true...that's GU for ya!
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